Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Did You Get This Email, It Will Make You Smile.

Anyone who has pets will really like this. You'll like it even if you don't and you may even decide you need one! Mary and her husband Jim had a dog named 'Lucky.' Lucky was a real character. Whenever Mary and Jim had company come for a weekend visit they would warn their friends to not leave their luggage open because Lucky would help himself to whatever struck his fancy. Inevitably, someone would forget and something would come up missing. Mary or Jim would go to Lucky's toy box in the basement and there the treasure would be, amid all of Lucky's other favourite toys. Lucky always stashed his finds in his toy box and he was very particular that his toys stay in the box. It happened that Mary found out she had breast cancer. Something told her she was going to die of this disease....in fact , she was just sure it was fatal. She scheduled the double mastectomy, fear riding her shoulders. The night before she was to go to the hospital she cuddled with Lucky. A thought struck her...what would happen to Lucky? Although the three-year-old dog liked Jim, he was Mary's dog through and through. If I die, Lucky will be abandoned, Mary thought. He won't understand that I didn't want to leave him. The thought made her sadder than thinking of her own death. The double mastectomy was harder on Mary than her doctors had anticipated and Mary was hospitalized for over two weeks. Jim took Lucky for his evening walk faithfully, but the little dog just drooped, whining and miserable. Finally the day came for Mary to leave the hospital. When she arrived home, Mary was so exhausted she couldn't even make it up the steps to her bedroom. Jim made his wife comfortable on the couch and left her to nap. Lucky stood watching Mary but he didn't come to her when she called. It made Mary sad but sleep soon overcame her and she dozed. When Mary woke for a second she couldn't understand what was wrong. She couldn't move her head and her body felt heavy and hot. But panic soon gave way to laughter when Mary realized the problem. She was covered, literally blanketed, with every treasure Lucky owned! While she had slept, the sorrowing dog had made trip after trip to the basement bringing his beloved mistress all his favourite things in life. He had covered her with his love. Mary forgot about dying. Instead she and Lucky began living again, walking further and further together every day. It's been 12 years now and Mary is still cancer-free. Lucky? He still steals treasures and stashes them in his toy box but Mary remains his greatest treasure. Remember....live every day to the fullest. Each minute is a blessing from God. And never forget....the people who make a difference in our lives are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards .They are the ones that care for us. If you see someone without a smile today give them one of yours! Live simply. Love seriously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
A small request: All you are asked to do is keep this circulating. Dear God, I pray for the cure of cancer. Amen All you are asked to do is keep this circulating even if it's to one more person. In memory of anyone you know that has been struck down by cancer and in honor of those still living with it.

6 comments:

Katie said...

I read that blog and it was super sweet. It reminded me of my grandpa and his dog. We just found out over the weekend my grandpa has terminal lung cancer. He got to come home this past weekend and his Dog, Austie, is always by his side and just watches over my grandpa. It's really sweet. This post made my day. Thank you!

I think it's great too that you are trying to have people gain awareness on cancer. I think it's an aweful thing and more people should be aware of the signs and symptoms. I think it's awesome that you are gaining awareness through your blog! I know you dont know who I am but I love reading your blog on here!

Bargain Decorating with Laurie said...

I did receive that email and loved it. I was glad to see it again, because reading that never gets old. laurie

Debra Facer said...

Katie, you are so sweet, thank you for all the kind words, its hard sometimes not knowing if you are really reaching anyone, hearing from people like you makes is all worth while.
I had Ovarian Cancer and I will do what ever I have to do to help find a cure, or spread the word so that if anyone has to go through it they are as lucky as I was and find it early.
Your grandfather is in my prayers, give him lots of hugs for me. Hugs Deb

Debra Facer said...

Hi Laurie, Nice to see you stopped by, hope you are having a wonderful day. Big Hugs Deb

SweetAnnee said...

Hi ..just coming by to see what's new
your blog looks so festive.!!
can't believe it's so close to
Christmas..I love the season!!
fondly, Deena

Katie said...

Thank you for the kind words and everything that you have said to me. You are so sweet!You are a huge help to me and I dont even personally know you lol. I am very sorry to hear about your mother and you're grandmother. I cannot even imagine what it'd feel like to lose my mom. I unfortunately lost my grandmother at 11 and I still remember it vividly. You are so brave for everything that you have endured. I cannot even imagine.
I am so lucky to have the support group in my life that I have through my family and my friends. I was amazed that many people gave me a shoulder to cry on. It's been one of the hardest things I have had to ever come to terms with (w/ my grandpa). I am so happy you got that extra year with your mom!!! I will keep your advice in mind because it scares me to talk to him about anything out of the norm. I do always tell him constantly that I love him. I am a picture and vid fanatic w/ him lately. I hope the doctors are wrong with the expectancy and I get at least a year too. Like I said, we are so close and it's hard to imagine him not in my life.
Oh and the people who told you to be strong--- I am so sorry. I agree with the fact that you should feel how you need to feel. Like I said, Thank you so much again for everything!!! I really do appreciate the words of wisom and the sharing. Like I said you are a strong person and I hope when the 23rd comes around you do something happy in her memory. Thank You again. Big hugs to you too!!

THE GARDEN OF HOPE

THE GARDEN OF HOPE will be our market place here at the cottage to raise money for the cure. We hope that you will love our homegrowns. The garden has just been planted, with lots of love and nurturing we hope to be able to harvest in beginning to mid October. Please check back, we will be looking for you. Posted by Debra Facer at 12:58 PM 1 comments

A PEAK AT WHO'S GROWING IN THE GARDEN

A PEAK AT WHO'S GROWING IN THE GARDEN
GROWING A LITTLE SLOW DUE TO LACK OF WATER (TIME) BUT WILL BE READY SOON!